Sorry you're going through such inner turmoil, HP. I think I got "it" when you asked the question about my W's sex drive "eclipsing" mine. I don't ever expect this to happen. I would be happy, I think, if my wife's sex drive made an appearance more often than Hailley's comet (to complete the astronomic reference). I'd never expect her to grab me and throw me on the bed and dominate me.
