Oh sheesh, let's not get started on the realistic thing.
Look I am as busy as the next person. I would bet that Jenny is too. What she was describing was a FANTASY. She even described it as such in her post. What she is after is a man who feels this way and may or may not have the time and resources available to act it out. It is really not the acting it out, it is the wanting to.
Our men do not even want to act it out. They are not turned on by things that turn other people on. Unlike women, this cannot be explained away by lack of testosterone or busyness with raising children.
I'm finding the whole thing frustrating today, although I am sexually satisfied this week and exchanging lovely emails with my H today. Life is weird! I am like a boiling cauldron, under the surface. I gotta ditch my expectations and work on accepting that my sex life is good and my H wants me in his own way.
If anyone was doubting, I can and will do this. I'm nothing if not persistent.
