Choc, I have been operating under the assumption that, at some point, my H's desire would overwhelm my own. He is a man, one who was found to have high testosterone no less, and so I have been expecting him to step up and show me what he is made of. The problem is that he has already been doing this, and I've not been listening.
It IS different for the HDH's. Are you telling me that you not only want your wife to have more frequent sex with you but that you also want and expect her sex drive to overshadow yours at some point?
That is the difference that I am trying to underscore.