I think HP and I would love to be able to accept your POV with confidence. Please tell us what you would do if your sexual desires required not just a loving and willing partner, but a sexually aggressive partner? What if your fantasies were primarily along the lines of
"Mrs.NOP looks at me with a glazed, longing in her eyes. I can sense the animal heat and arousal engulfing her. She places her hands firmly on my shoulders and pins me down on the bed. Consumed with desire, she kisses me fiercely, barely restraining herself from biting my lip. With one quick move she unzips my jeans to discover that my desire has followed apace with her own. A momentary appreciative glance and a murmurred "beautiful" is her last cogent thought before she releases her ego to the primitive forces pulsing within and between us. We don't simply "make love". We let love make us as it has made and remade all creatures since the amoeba ceased to reign."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
