The FACT is that you don't know what your husband is thinking about an event that has yet to occur.
If he does drop back to minimum mode, then you can address it. You haven't really lost anything, nor are you going to (except maybe some control - a good thing).
I bet that your husband really is HIGH DRIVE, he just needs a bit of room to figure out where he is in the relationship. I will tell you this, it is NOT where you think he is.
I think that you should examine why your reaction to abdicating a bit of control back to your husband is bothering you so much.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
