Honeypot. Like Nope said the schedule is in control, not you, not your H.
Schedule tues, thurs, & sat with one night off for XYZ reasons. the reasons to cancel have to be stated 12 hours in advance for most problems. Serious problems require a 2 hour notice of cancelation.
If the T, T, S does not thrill you, do the " I will write down what I want on a slip of paper, you write what you want on a slip of paper and then compare them. See where you 2 are now. Do it again with limits (least to most ) and go from there.
BTW, I tried this with W and got an I don't know response from her, so I am no expert.
OG Lou Remove the variables, equals removing the anxiety.
