Ok, guys, I'm feeling confused. I'm not sure what to expect out of this schedule thing.
It will not increase our frequency. We already ML at that frequency, or more.
Here is what I am expecting: I expect that it will (eventually) feel more natural as we get started. Right now, it is awkward. I expect that we will, as a COUPLE, begin to look forward to these nights. Right now, H dreads it and I watch him like a hawk to make sure he's at least thinkin about it. I expect that my H's sexual confidence will increase, as he sees that I am satisfied and happy. I expect that I will chill out, because I can stop worrying about whether he desires me enough to stay awake for me. He will know that he is going to be awake, whether he likes it or not.
So whatcha think? Am I missing anything?
We have had a loose schedule for a while now. It was the "twice a week is the minimum, and anything over that is a bonus" schedule. The problem was that the weight was on H's shoulders, or so he feels, and I never felt fully satisfied with the results.
I'm getting hopeful. I'm off to take a bath and have a glass of wine so that I am chilled and happy when he arrives home. The baby is sleeping and the older two are occupado with stringing cheerios onto pipe cleaners and making bracelets and necklaces. That should be a fun mess to clean up!
