It means he got so hot he felt faint. You know, the way you feel in the summertime..
And once he quits, there is no going back to it. I was already finished (and I suspect he was just holding on until I did, so he could quit) and he is then too self conscious to allow me to give him an orgasm at that point.
Nicegal, I shouldn't have given the impression that my husband doesn't try. He does try. I just meant that I am no longer willing to prop him up on the times when he DOESN'T try.
For instance, last night when he initiated and then crapped out in the middle, what was I supposed to do? Tell him it's okay? It's not okay with me. I want to be understanding and I really do try to be that way, but he gives me SO much material with which to get pissy!
But, as I said, I tend to vent a lot on this board. IRL, I was direct with him today but not unkind at all. He was the same, although he is evasive and not direct.
