I don't think it is harsh. It's tough that it is pretty clear that the attitude you describe of him seems to be "I don't really care". Ouch.
I think it is one thing if you can see a person is really trying to please you, though my doubt is that could ever happen to any person completely as they would like. But if it is evident that are going out of their way. You H doesn't sound that way.
I just can't relate as to how it would be to have the W wanting S and the H not.
There are times that I've been horny but because our R was not where it should be I didn't go for it. I'd be quite crabby and angry, but it was more at the R and me being mad that he'd rather be mad at me than work on the R. When many times, I'd want it. Of course, not as many as H.
Is yours being horny or is it the need for physical touch too and/or equally?
