He has not had a physical since he has been out of the USMC, which was..gosh...six years ago? He is 37.
No on the steroids. He has a typical altar boy personality. Goody goody, does everything right, etc.
Just got done telling me he was afraid I'd ask for something from VS and he'd have to go to one of their "soft porn" outlets. LOL
Believe me, I've given up on requesting slinky things for special occasions. He did buy me something from VS once but it was a head-to-toe red flannel nightgown. I still have it and still wear it. It's very warm. Oh and it had matching granny slippers.
In all seriousness, he and I are having an interesting conversation today. I find it much easier to say the harsh things that sometimes need to be said when I'm already on edge with him. Otherwise I feel too bad and don't want to hurt his feelings. I've been pussyfooting around the T test for weeks now. I know what a sensitive area this is for him (much more so than, say, asking your wife to get tested) so I chicken out. Today I'm throwing him some hardballs and, to his credit, he's hitting them right back.