Hairy, I've been nicely working on him this morning about the test. I have no idea if he will mention it or not (thought my gut is telling me he won't) but at least he will know how important it is to me PRIOR to not mentioning it and will fully understand what I think of that decision.
I also sent him a questionnaire on "do you have low T?" Honestly, as I was reading the questions, I thought it was a toss up, so I don't harbor any great hopes that his hormones are whacky and that will deliver us from this endless cycle.
You know, the ONLY reason I wonder at all is because he doesn't have sexual thoughts. This blows me away and makes me say hmmm. Otherwise I'd say there are no reasons to think that it would turn out anything other than normal. Though if it would come back high, I think the brutha would have some splainin to do.