I can't imagine it's my p yet. I didn't have one with the first two until, gosh I don't know, 15 months? Somewhere in that timeframe. I rarely have them on my own, anyway. I could count on my fingers and toes the number of p's I've had in my entire life.
Baby just started sleeping through the night last week. She is sleeping really loooooong stretches so my supply is adjusting. (fellas are you just lovin this chick talk? Bet you're sorry you clicked on this thread..) She goes down about 9 and sleeps anywhere from 5:30 to 7. So my body is adjusting to that and it isn't always pleasant, as you well know!
The mb thing..well, that is due to his religious beliefs more than wanting to be needed by me. He considers it his first and foremost priority to ensure that I reach the pearly gates. So, while he does not monitor my sins whatsoever, he and I have talked frankly about mbation and what it is he expects me to do.
The funny thing is...I would have expected that it would be the man of the R having this particular discussion. Simply because of physiological reasons! I mean, a man's testicles fill with semen whether the wife feels like ML or not. His body will require that he get rid of this eventually. One would think that my husband would be drawn to me by physical urges if nothing else. But I have watched with my own eyes as weeks passed and nothing happened. His usual MO (before we began having reg sex again) was about every 6 weeks. Then ML once and the whole thing started again. This seems odd to me, but whatever. He also does not stop to eat or go to the bathroom if he is busy, so ignoring his body is extremely easy for him. Sometimes I wonder if his pain/pleasure receptors work at all!
