My H is 39. I am 37. I will be interested to follow what happens with your H's test if he actually takes it.
Yeah - I think my H likes that whole "being together, relaxing, watching tv" deal as a way to alleviate his guilt about not spending time the way I prefer. However, if I read then it isn't really "together" and he knows it.
Sorry about the MIL - I guess the temp of your home is your own *&&^ business.
Karen
PS Just got an e-mail from H. He needs to come by my office in the next 2 weeks (an hour from home) and suggested lunch and even included an innuendo about "visiting" an empty barn that is at a park near my office. Don't know if he will make good or not but hope springs eternal and I innuendoed back!