Karen,
H is 37.

Btw, I realized I did not respond to your earlier question: He prefers that I am right there with him, so if I don't want to watch The Comancheros (or whatever) then he would just as soon I read a book.

Sounds lovely and romantic right? Wellllllll I think it has more to do with his own sense of guilt than anything else! He feels guilty if he knows that he is doing something that I don't want to do. I could care less but he puts so much pressure on himself.
So he prefers that I am right there with him, thereby alleviating his guilt (??).

Anyway, he's a piece of work.

My PMA is doing okay but it took a mild hit about 5 minutes ago when my MIL called and informed me that I keep my house too hot. I managed to bite my tongue and refrain from saying that if I was carrying an extra 100 lbs, I'd feel hot in here too.
(btw, I checked while on the phone with her and it is set on 67)