Quote: I don't know how to convey to him that it really isn't the actual sex that makes me feel loved--it is the desire. . . . , for him, it always comes back to the act and whether it happened or not and whether big momma got her O.
I don't know, HP. It's similar to when I tell my W that I want to be touched, I want to touch her, I want to lie naked next to her, and, oh yes, I'd like to make love to her; and then she comes back with, "it's always about sex." Is it that they are trying to over-simplify, or are they just not hearing us? I find it difficult to repeat myself for the 100th time.
