Lovely plan. Over a year ago I gave H a gift cetificate entitling him to dessert served a deaux while taking a bubble bath in the tub in our bathroom. He has yet to redeem.
I received a bunch of silly gifts at work of stuff like Kama Sutra cards, chocolate body butter and the like. I put them in a basket by our bed for a while and he put in our closet!!!
He seems to see that kind of thing as crass or pressure or I don't know WTF.
Karen
PS Good resolution. I am meditating on such a concept even as we speak.
