IHJ - I'm with you. Since I am diligently trying to quit being the relationship monitor and trying to live my life instead. Therefore, I MUST quit reading self help books unless they apply to me - NOT the relationship.
HD - yeah - I can only imagine presenting my H with such a CD when he has clearly stated in the past that he hates presents that seem like "suggestions" (e.g. an unrequested treadmill for an overweight partner).
Nonetheless, I got a considerable amount of entertainment from just picturing what would NOT HAPPEN as a result of purchasing such equipment.
