HairDog, This is a little off of topic for this thread. I just finished reading "Boundaries in Marriage" I had about the same opinion you had. I posted the parts that stood out on FF's thread. I do not know it the post will help FF or anyone else.
The “You get what you tolerate.” struck me. You and FF poped into my mind when I read it. (applies to me, been working on that part)
