NOPkins thanks for the words of courage. I definitelly think that he is rewriting history and as angry and hurt I am by his actions I do notice that he is totally following the path of all others that came before him. I guess this is the only reason why I'm not blowing up at him and asking him to move instead of me and just making his life miserable for as long as I can.
I cannot change the past, I can influence the presence and future so that's what I'm going to do. Now I will be truly DBing (LRT) and this time I will not have a fear that I mess things up. I am not the one who messed them up in first place so I have nothing to lose.