A private investigator can take the cell number that you have, and find out all about her, and it probably won't cost very much.
If she is married, i think that her husband deserves to know the truth about his wife.
Before you decide to dump him, consider thinking about it over the weekend. Think about whether or not you want to put out the effort to attempt recovery. It is your decision.
You have a lot to digest. Try to take some time out and do something you like to do. A walk, movie, whatever relaxes you.
It won't make you feel better right now, but you aren't the first person to face this battle. Unfortunately, affairs are far too common. For what it is worth, spouses caught up in the act of an affair often rewrite their marital history. "I never loved you. I never wanted to marry you. I didn't think our marriage would make it this far. I love you, but I am not in love with you." That is all absolute bull do. ALL wayward spouses say ridiculously similar things.
I hope that you have at least a tolerable weekend.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
