I suspected he was still involved...don't assume his family does know though. Remember you're reading his e-mails, that could possibly just be him spouting off to her. They may still be clueless...know way of know that for sure.
However...I would most absoulutely be seeking out a very good attorney. Don't sign anything he gives you until your attorney looks it over and you agree with it! I'm sure I don't need to tell you that...just felt I had to.
I'm so sorry this is the way things are going for you. But you do deserve better and from what I've gathered from your posts...you can definitely do better.
