Read you loud and clear. Especially that I've done some snooping again and found picctures of OW as well as e-mails. He told her that in the he's been creating things with her in mind, she is his inspiration. I also found one that said how happy he is because the paperwork (D papers) are going through and it looks that he will be able to save the house and have some money for fun. Another e-mail I found was to his parents saying that his mom wanted him to send the picture of OW. And all that time she was telling me that he has no one and that she hopes that our M works out. What a bunch of bull! I guess the whole family is messed up.
So, I'm going to have to work really hard to be able to be with him under the same roof. I'm angry but also calm at this time. I believe that I have not reason anymore to work on that M. I hoped that after his melt down he would at least be curt and stop things from developing but the e-mail about her being inspiration on the project that I was helping him with and the fact that even his family knows and seems to approve of her makes it that much cleared for me that I should no longer invest in that R. At this point I need to take care of myself. I need to make sure that he will not screw me over financially (that will be the day where the two of them can have FUN with money that was mine) and physically. Psychologically the damage is done. I need to take care of it myself.
