You're absolutely right. If we ever get physical again I'm making him wear a condom despite how good it feels when he's not. I will tell him that it's for protection for both of us. I can't trust him (he knows that) because he is not telling me everything (he said it himself) and therefore we need to estabilish some trust by having tests done (I just had mine the other week). He did mention something about going to the MD to check out his MR happy because his understanding is that the tip should have the most sensation where as he can barely feel anything there and most of it is underside. He said it's always been like that but he wants to know. Where should he go to get tested? I think it would be a good way of having him do it without freaking out too much