I agree with barney, thank your hubby for his sweet attentions, then tell him something like this;
"Hubby, I love you so much. The gifts are wonderful and I really appreciate them. I know you went to a lot of trouble and put a lot of thought into the gifts. In the future, you can make your life a lot simpler, and save yourself some time and money. My real needs are very simple. What I need from you, is for you to want me - emotionally and sexually."
I bet that will stir his pot : -)
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.