Mine is comfy with both, but just prefers for it to be entirely on his schedule.

In order to conceive our 3 girls, I had to take fertility drugs. These drugs give migraine headaches, wild mood swings, stomach aches and a host of other side effects--none of them too terrible, just NOT something I'd go through one more time than I had to.
However, with the first two babies, I had a helluva time getting him to ML during the XXX days that were marked on the calendar. With D2 he flat out refused to do it when I told him it was 'time'. Due to some weird circumstances, I ended up ovulating 2 weeks later (!) and conceived after I had given up all hope of conceiving and resigned myself to the fact that I was married to a rat bastard who would rather see me suffer than put himself out. I didn't even know I was pregnant for a very long time cause I had given up trying to conceive a baby with someone who would not have sex at 'the' time.
With D5 it was a similar story although not as dramatic.
Then we began repairing our R, and things dramatically improved. I think that, by this time, we may have even had the problem licked except that I wanted another baby (so did he, btw) and the pregnancy has set us way back.

Anyway, this was a long answer to you: No. If anything, my H is more amenable to recreational sex! He does not like "having" to have sex on certain days in order to conceive children. Have I mentioned he is a pain in the ass.

Honey