Quote: as far as I know H doesn’t MB, even in the shower.
This could be my bf, too. He also thinkgs things will just get better by themselves. But I feel that the longer we go witohut, the harder it will be to get back across the gulf.
He also had past issues with demanding women. His ex used to lie in bed and shout for him to get back there and fcuk her!
I also believe it has something to do with his mother. (His mom and his ex are twins. Photos of mom ARE identical with photos of ex at same age.)
We are in C, and in a private session the C told me she believed there was at least emotional incest between him and his mom. If you met his mom, you would agree. The C said that people who do not trust the opposite sex have a very hard time being sexual, and told me I might have to find someone else if this issue is a deal-breaker. (And she is a Schnarch-oriented counselor.)
