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why ask him to move to the guest room? Why not just move there yourself?
Hairdog




Because the baby is still sleeping in our room (In his crib). I haven't wanted to move him to his own room yet because it's easier/quicker for me to deal with middle of the night feeding. My thinking has been that for ML we don't have to be in our bedroom with the baby if H is going to feel weird about the baby being there (living room after baby's asleep seems ideal), but he actually hasn't even offered that up as an excuse yet anyways. & I was planning on moving the baby to his room when he's down to one feeding per night (at this point within 2 weeks). At that point I guess I could be the one that moves...

I'm not sure if the seperate rooms/beds would be counter-productive or a welcome respite from eachother... What do you think? Improvement or make it worse?