NOPkins, great advice...you really need to talk to her.
with all the stuff going on in my marriage right now, I have to say we're closer than in a long time...weird but true, because we are facing a LOT of our issues.
Not all of them, unfortunately I have to keep some stuff to myself just to protect myself in case of future legal stuff...
Anyway, you need to tell yourself you tried everything, you might check the DB & DR books too...
At least if my marriage ends I know I faced the issuses and did what I could to save it.
Good Luck
Slowly all the roles we act out become our Identity,
And in the end we are what we pretend to be.
-Jerry Cantrell
