Quote: I guess my biggest dilmena is when to have the talk? And literally what should I say? My relationship and marriage have really turned into a sort of partneship. The whole dam thing feels like one giant business transaction. We don't fight about anything, we don't sleep together, we both have our own duties around the house and do them to keep things running smoothly, we don't really make plans for the future, we never talk about our relationship, we never go out by ourselves its always with our S. We handle the bills, talk about money decisions like investments and such. We do all the things that I thought regular couples would do its just that we don't feel like we are a couple.
Sounds to me that you do know what the talk should say...you just said it all to us...now tell her. If you still love her make sure you tell her that too, ok?
