I don't know how many have had cyber sex/affairs here. I thought they were mostly innocent and it happened so inocently. A comment here--a jesture there. Before you know it, that warm rush of oil running over your hands and the "time to lite a smoke" is upon you and you did nothing cept talk about things you remembered doing at one point in your life.
That "kept me going"--not to the "construction of a evil husband stage" but definately the "horney housewife". 3 things can happen. 1 the thing just fizzles out like any date can. 2. you do meet and are compatable/incompatible(maybe thats 2 things in itself) 3. You become so involved that when you do 'break up' its so crushing it does nothing to help with the bad relationship youre in and things spiral downward.
In short. CyberSex/Relations are REAL! They mess with the heart and mind and can stir the feet going elsewhere. Treat her encounters as a real breech!
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
