I'm sorry to hear about your situation...but since you've been reading posts here I'm sure you know...you aren't alone. That's little consolation I know, but you aren't alone.
Ok, now on to the questions to see if we can't help you wade through some of this stuff.
#1 What is your wife's reason/excuse for not having sex with you? #2 What approaches have you taken? #3 Why did you move out of the bedroom? (it's much easier for someone not to deal with you when that happens.)
Ok...just answer those things for now, perhaps that'll give us some insights to help you
