Hi Jin- I hope you feel better really soon. It sounds like you got all kinds of replies to your sitch, and some may have hit home. I too am an introvert, and like to stay home. I think betsey was using the term party girl as an expression, not to be taken literally. You and your S are so good at talking things thru and coming up with mutually beneficial solutions, I am sure you can do that here too.
I for one appreciate your honest emotional reactions about the situations you are in with your S., I think we have to be so careful not to go overboard with our reaciotns when we are actually WITH them, that it is a nice break to come here and vent a bit.
