I didn't mean to cast aspersions on your character. Hey, remember my paradigm comes from having 2 kids. And the last thing I want to do after going on vacation with them is head out again.
But I think I remember awhile back that you had dubbed your former self as "party girl"? Or something along those lines?
And I will definitely agree with you that wanting to go out isn't a bad thing. More than occasionally, Jennifer. Don't feel like I'm berating you for that...
I think you've got something good to work with here:
Quote: In fact, it was a sort of tactic for me, to bring us closer together after such an awkward NY.
Maybe your message would have been received if it had been focused on this sentiment? I'm guessing that S doesn't like the distance between you two either. So why not just spill the beans and tell him what you're feeling and your proposed remedy and see if that's what Rx he would prescribe?
Hugs back atcha girl, and hope you're feeling better really soon.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
