Quote: Part of me knows that this is his way of communicating that nothing else (including plans with me) has come across his desk, and so the default setting is to come home. But the other part of me wants to scream "SO THINK OF SOMETHING AND ASK ME TO DO IT!" or at the very least, "SO RESPOND TO MY SUGGESTION THAT WE GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING WITH SOME SORT OF ENTHUSIASM!"
Maybe those two parts can compromise and tell him, without screaming. I can see both of your POVs. He did just spend a week in GA, visiting your family, hiking, shopping, etc. Of course, you just spent a week in GA, too, but that's not the same kind of "doing something" that you seem to have meant in talking to him. Maybe the problem is that the phrase "done anything" is too imprecise. How about "We haven't done anything around here/with our friends/in the city lately" instead?
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