from an e-mail to H2H: Well, I actually didn’t think it would upset him that I was out, since he had plans, too. I figured we’d hook up at home (for sleep), but I did get home late and I didn’t get his message until I thought it was too late to call. I know, I know. I guess part of me too was doing a very misguided, bad attempt at mystery-slash-jealousy-mongering. I actually thought that if we didn’t see each other for two nights in a row, he’d miss me more. I DO think, however, that this pissiness is controlling behavior. And what does one do about that?
H2H reminded me that jealousy mongering is controling behavior, too.
OK, I know, and I'm bending over for more whacks.
Ellie, I'm not sure S. will respond to saying I didn't come over when he "made it clear" he wanted to see me. He will say something to the effect of "You can do whatever you want." How about this?
S., I'm sorry I didn't come over last night when I came home. I guess I was afraid and insecure about coming over so late, in light of our recent conversations, and I let it get in the way of what I really wanted to do, which was curl up with you.
Thanks, guys! May I have another?
