* He is jealous and fearful that you will leave him for MF! Now that you know that, how can you make it a little safer for him, but without losing all the mystery and allure that we all know is part of an erotic relationship.....Just remember that he is a sensitive guy.
* I agree with H2H that you guys both seem to groove on intense talks (3 hours! I think my H would break out in hives by then....). Maybe try a few days of fun activities like the pizza-making, and dial down the intensity? Just for a change of pace .