H2H- I have been thinking the same thing---nothing is really permanent. Right now we are where we are, and just because my H and I made a comittment, doesn't mean that we will be here forever for each other. That leaves me with appreciating everything that comes my way today, bc it could be gone tomorrow. A committed realtionship comes in many forms, and I don't think marriage defines a committed realtionship. My 2 cents' worth.