Ok, here's the latest.

Throughout the Holidays, things weren't the greatest sexually speaking...but in retrospect things were actually much better than they were this time last year.

We have only ML one time in the last three weeks, so my H hasn't exactly held to our "schedule"...but then you know what? Neither have I.

Am I getting depressed about our lull at the moment...well yes, sometimes...but I'm making a concious choice at the moment to concentrate right now on the things he has improved on to help me not allow my negative attitude to take back over.

I will admit that the one time we did ML was unusual for us...we finally managed to ML in a room other than our bedroom which is a definite first for us. The other type of sexual activity we had (which was just this past Saturday night)....was very simple. I got a "wild hair" and decided to give my H a blow-job...just because I felt like it and I know he likes them.

I hopped off the couch where I was sitting....went over to him at the recliner where he was...proceeded to strip him which wasn't difficult with sweats on LOL. I was kneeling between his legs and asked if there was anything he'd like me to do (knowing he'd say "I don't know", see I had a plan here )...I then proceeded with the blow-job.

When I was finished...and so was he. I looked up at him and asked if he liked it when I did that....of c ourse he said "yes!" So I said back..."Now you have something you can ask me to do when I ask "if there's anything you'd like".

Now it wasn't ML, but it was fun for me. I ended things at that point and we finished watching the movie we had been watching. I know he was completely surprised that I left thigns at that...but I wanted him to see that we don't always have to have a full-blown ML session in order to enjoy each other.

I did that because with our lull I was beginning to wonder if he thought that all sexual contact had to lead to ML every time. I don't want him to think that way.

So that's our update for now....yes, we've hit a hiccup. But I believe it will be a temporary one.

GEL

Well behaved women rarely ever make history!