Greeneyedlass wrote, {{It finally dawned on me I was trying to alter his feelings...I can't do that, that's not within my power. Want & desire are both feelings, people are bound to interperete those feelings differently within themselves}}

Greeneyedlass this is how I try to relate with my W and ML. I am glad to hear you two have been improving your sex lives. I still have a long way to go to get to a point similar to yours. I really do not expect W will change her opinion much about sex or our R.

OG Lou, you can not make anyone do anything, but there are many choices.