I hate to beat a dead-horse, but as many people have said (and you've admitted)...I too suspect that it's because you aren't speaking her LL's. I know you've stated that you still don't know what they are...have you tried asking yet?
For that matter, just out of curiosity, have you had a serious heart-to-heart talk with her yet about all of this? As many of us have suggested? If not, I'm curious why? Is there something you think she may say that you don't want to hear?
