I read something recently that talks about scheduled sex and how important it is today with everyone being so busy. I haven't formally asked for a schedule, but now I make sure that my kids are asleep nice and early a few nights a week. Last night I changed our light bulbs to red. I think my H really liked it. I keep looking for new and exciting ideas since this was one of our major issues. I recently bought Dr. Ellen Kriedman's lighthisfire videos. They gave me some really good ideas and talked about affection. She mentions the need for humans to be touched. I now make sure we have at least a 10 second kiss at least twice a day. Glad to hear that your scheduling is working!