Hey LL, I just wanted to respond to your post here.
I have had NO luck in getting my H to agree to a night where we spend time together, either. Alone, with kids, after kids are in bed--doesn't matter. He is completely resistant to the idea of scheduling ME into his daily routine. I have no idea why. I think he sees me as one more chore, ya know?
HOWEVER, I have been talking with him about the scheduled sex and he is warming up to the idea a LOT. I had to phrase it just right but he's...dare I say it...even getting somewhat excited about trying it. Not thrilled, mind you, but eager to try.
This is a big change from 2 yrs ago when he flat out refused to schedule sex.
Look at it this way: What do you have to lose by asking?
Honey
P.S. I phrased it this way "we are both busy, this will give us time to get excited about it, if we know today is The Day, and there won't be anymore hidden expectations and disappointments."
