moving forward III ... planning for the future

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Hi, Nevanna!
One paragraph out of M/V - just for you!

... when she is upset by his tendency to go into his cave, he may give up going into his cave in an attempt to fulfill her. This is a big mistake. If he gives up the cave (and denies his true nature) he becomes irritable, overly sensitive, defensive, weak, passive, or mean. And to make matters worse, he doesn't know why he has become so unpleasant (Gray, p89).

Get the book, girlfriend. I'm on this very chapter myself!