Quote: No, actually, I have not read M/V. Is it really that good? I heard it talked about sooo much on TV when it came out, that I just wasn't interested. I have this weird thing where I actually really don't want a product if it's pushed too hard. Always makes me wonder, if it's so great, why is everyone trying so hard to sell it?
I totally resisted it too. But about 6 months into DB'ing I was at a plateau and was looking for ways to get off of it. I started listening to the tapes and it was a tremendous eye opener for me. It was amazing to me how much I was misunderstanding about h and our M. I recommend it to EVERYONE that's having M problems and I even gave it to my sister for part of her wedding present. It's like anything else...you'll take what you need from it but some of the topics (how to ask for what you want, keys to showing your h love, etc) were really pretty impactful in my m.
(and yes, it knocked us off the plateau!)
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
