Hi Nevanna, I finally got here to post to you. I got caught up last week, but never got a chance to post. Wow, you've had sooooo much stuff going on. and, Wow, you've done a great job of dealing with it.
I know lots of people here will disagree with this, but I don't think it's always all bad to let them know how frustrated we are sometimes with their "crap". It sounds like your H got the message loud and clear. Now good for you for stepping back to see what he does with it.
I was struck also when I read your list of the changes your H has been working at. I read somewhere recently, I think it may have been in a book and not here on the bb, that there is a BIG difference between making changes slowly, trying to make changes and backsliding, and refusing to change or to even admit that change is needed. That really hit home with me
Thanks for all your support on my thread. I dont' know what I'd do with out it!!!! This is really a dizzying ride, isn't it?
