One question... does your H tend to personalize whenever he sees you down? I guess I ask b/c I think my H did personalize and felt like he had to compensate somehow and try, try, try to make me feel better. Just wondering, really. Of course, I did my share of personalizing, but I wouldn't try to fix it; I'd just take it personally and get upset. I guess I'm just trying to figure out whether there's a fine line between offering reassurances and "fixing" things. ....
Maybe it's time for me to take a long nap. Kinda tired and not thinking straight.
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I guess I'm just trying to figure out whether there's a fine line between offering reassurances and "fixing" things. .... 
