Maya, thanks so much for stopping by.

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You are doing some great Dbing and it is paying off.



You have no idea how badly I needed to hear that... Thank you.

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Act as if you are ok when he comes home... or

if that is impossible... give him huge validation for noticing and caring....



Heh. I've tried to act as if--doesn't seem to work while we are living together. He always nails me on it.

I think I may have to go with option number 2. give him huge validation for noticing and caring.... For some reason, this had not occurred to me...but it makes perfect sense...

[color:"purple"]Nevanna[/color]