Just wanted to say that I think you're doing an amazing job of holding it together while h is having a rough go...what better/more positive/loving thing could you be doing than listening to his fears and tough feelings and all-over-the-map thoughts with such loving detachment and validation!? You've been so strong and "there" for him -- it's awesome to read about.
Hang in there while he wavers...and take care of yourself, too.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
