Been thinking about getting the SSM book. H tends toward the LD side. He is happy with twice a month. I would prefer 2-3 times a week. I realized HD/LD is all relative, but it's not been enough lately. Wonder if I've been slipping back to being critical because I'm feeling a littel ignored in this department? I'll need to take a closer look at this. Regardless, I'm tired of our sex life hinging on whatever mood he's in.
We were doing it more frequently a few months ago. What was different? For one, I think I may have been more generous with the random AOS (instead of when he just asks me for things). I think I'm going to offer another massage when he gets home from the gym--I know he likes that after a work out.
H also asked my why I didn't wear this outfit he got me a few months back to sleep in anymore. I told him I really did like it, it's just too cold for me to sleep in it right now. Maybe I'll pick up something new this next paycheck...I know some stuff he might like...
I think I may have let myself start looking at the negatives again. It'll be easier for me to filter out the "junk" part of what he's starting to say again if I post more, and focus on the positives.
