I wanted to talk about DBing in the midst of litigation. Since I'm in litigaiton, I really can't post a lot.
The gist of where we're at now is that W filed for D last month, but since my state is a "fault" state, she has to allege cruel and inhuman treatment, not just irreconcilable differences or a "dead marriage."
In short, she has to paint me as a crazy nut job who is unsafe to live with and I have to say, "That's not true, let me to you what's really going on." Not exactly an exercise in validating. There'a a lot more, but basically a legal case is everyhting anti-DBing in terms of laying negativity on the table. How does one operate in that sitch and I'm relying on your experience with couples in this sitch?
As an important aside, I'm pretty grounded and am taking good care of myself. Thanks.
